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Inspirational Adventures
Taking the time to take your friend or family member out of the drama of planning a funeral and the everyday heaviness they are experiencing, is an uplifting gift that they will cherish for many years to come.

 

My Trip to Disneyland

When my Mom passed away my friends thought it would be a good idea to get me out of the house to have a little fun.   It is sometimes hard to image having fun after someone passes away but sometimes fun and laughter are the best medicine.  I grew up in Los Angeles and had easy access to Disneyland.  My Mom loved Disneyland and we went often when I was growing up.  Going to Disneyland not only was a way to have fun, it was a way to connect with my Mom through a shared passion for the most magical place on earth.  

We let go, we had fun and just enjoyed the sunshine and the rides.   It was a great release!  One added benefit of going on rides is you can scream a little and no one takes much notice.  
Debbie, Michele and Lang, you have no idea how much I appreciated this day!
 


 

My Private Memorial Service

After my Mom passed away, we had so many plans to make it became a whirled wind of activity.  We had one Memorial Service in California and her burial in South Dakota.  Two weeks after my mother passed away, my aunt was killed in a car accident and we had to help make arrangements for her funeral and assist my cousin in getting ready for college.   There was really no time to step back and really take in all that was happening.  After things had calmed down a bit I decided I needed to do something for myself, something to allow me to grieve.

My friend, Pastor Smith allowed me to have a private service in honor of my mother.  It was just the two of us.  We talked about my mom, I brought in pictures and memories of special moments I spent with my Mom.  We prayed together and cried together.  It was a special time for me to allow myself to feel the great loss I had just experienced as well as cherish the memories I had of my Mom.   It was an awesome experience and I am greatly appreciative of Pastor Smith's willingness to be their for me in my time of need.

 

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What does your loved one LOVE to do?

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